Spanish Etiquette & Manners

Please, thank you, table manners, gift-giving. Cultural norms you should know.

Basic politeness

SituationSpanish
PleasePor favor
Thank you / Thanks a lotGracias / Muchas gracias
You're welcomeDe nada / No hay de qué
Excuse me (passing by)Perdón / Con permiso
Excuse me (getting attention)Disculpe (usted) / Perdona (tú)
I'm sorryLo siento
Bless you (after sneeze)¡Salud! / ¡Jesús!
Enjoy your meal¡Buen provecho! / ¡Que aproveche!

Greetings etiquette

When entering and leaving

Always greet when entering a shop/elevator/waiting room: ¡Buenos días! / ¡Buenas tardes!
Always say goodbye when leaving: ¡Hasta luego! / ¡Adiós!
Not greeting is considered very rude in Spanish-speaking cultures.
Entering a restaurant: ¡Buenas noches! (even if just ordering takeaway)

Table manners

Dining etiquette

Hands on the table (not on your lap) — keeping hands under the table is considered suspicious.
Don't start eating until everyone is served or the host says ¡Buen provecho!
Break bread with hands, never cut it with a knife.
Tipping: Not mandatory in Spain (5-10%), expected in Mexico (10-15%).
Sobremesa: The tradition of lingering at the table after eating, chatting for hours. Don't rush!

Gift-giving

Cultural norms

Wine or chocolates are safe gifts when invited to someone's home.
Odd numbers of flowers (except 13) — even numbers are for funerals in some regions.
Open gifts when received (unlike some Asian cultures where you wait).
¡No tenías que molestarte! (You didn't have to bother! — polite response to a gift)
¡Qué detalle! (How thoughtful! — appreciating a gift)

Social norms

Things that surprise foreigners

Late arrivals are normal: 15-30 min late for social events is expected. Being on time can mean you arrive before the host is ready!
Lunch is the main meal (2-3 PM in Spain). Dinner is light and late (9-10 PM).
Siestas: Many businesses close 2-5 PM in smaller Spanish towns.
Don't split the bill precisely — one person usually pays or it's split equally, not per item.

Quick quiz

1. Bless you (sneeze) = ¡_____!

2. Enjoy your meal! = ¡Buen _____!

3. Not greeting when entering is considered _____.

4. Hands during dinner should be _____.

5. Sobremesa means _____.

6. Being 15 min late to a social event is _____.

7. You didn't have to bother! = ¡No tenías que _____!

8. Dinner in Spain is typically at _____.

9. How thoughtful! = ¡Qué _____!

10. The main meal in Spain is _____.

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